We all have this one phase in our lives where we feel ignored, don’t feel like talking to anyone or simply sit alone and often tend to think, “am I not enough for people’’? the reason being that the people we think are important for us may not treat us the way we except them to treat us, and that’s where the “I am not worth them’’ thing starts bugging you and then your energy of being happy slowly and steadily finishes off. But the question remains the same, how to avoid this sad event of happenings? ….. the solution is very simple, make someone else feel that they are special, and this thing will repeat with you, here`s explaining how;
When you make someone else happy, or make them feel special, the same act of your kindness hits you back like a boomerang, if you throw the boomerang in the right direction, it comes back to you, just like that, your one act of kindness of making someone feel special will surely repeat itself and some one, some day will make you feel that even you are important! All you have to do is go with the flow, and trust the vibe.
“IT DOSENT MEAN THAT EVERYONE WILL TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU DESEVE TO BE TREATED,IT MEANS THAT YOU WONT LET THEM CHANGE THE WAY YOU SEE YOURSELF; NOR WILL YOU STICK AROUND THEM TO DESTROY YOU”
This quote truly explains the topic, we need to be with only those people who truly appreciate your work, love you for being who you are and most importantly accept you with your flaws, but still choses to only love you. And if you don’t have any one like that, there is always an option of being rainbow in some ones else cloud, if you have lost the sunshine in your life, be to someone`s else life, the feeling of sparkling someone`s else world is way to special. Have you ever experienced it?
While you are making someone happy, remove the thought off your mind that when will I be happy?
There is a verse in Mahabharata, which states the exact solution to our problem, it is,
“KEEP DOING YOUR DEEDS WITHOUT HAVING A GREED FOR THE RESULTS.’’
When you do good to someone with an expectation of gaining something in return, I won`t take place as you have greed in your mind, when you do something with a clear heart, you get the returns of it when you were not even expecting it.so the next time you make someone happy, don’t think about what you would get in return, leave that thing on karma…. It will figure out the best for you….
At the end of the article the writer of this just wants you guys to know,
“there is a hope for you waiting in the dark,
You should know you are beautiful just the way you are,
and you don’t have to change the thing, the world can change its heart,
No scares to you are beautiful….. we are stars and we are beautiful…….
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